Yes, it's unacceptable
Yes; I wouldn't want my kids playing with some of these toys
Good discipline. Hopefully he'll change his ways.
Four or more hours a day.
Yes. The cheer was inappropriate for the child's age.
Possibly. It depends on how you define "balance." If everyone is generally healthy and happy, then I think we're headed in the right direction.
Yes. In an emergency or for a fun learning experience it's fine, as long as the employer is OK with it and the kids don't interfere.
So tired of the histrionics from both sides.